Is there a proper term for a women whose OH is only with them for sex???

[FAQ]

only word I can think of is whore/prostitute - but there's no payment involved as they're a couple.

depends if they get new handbags and boots for thinking of England

mistress

concubine

whatever.....

PMSL @ bananaknickers

the other woman

Well they could be called clever if you ask me. Why are you one FAQ ? hope not

Why do you need a name for it? If this is happening to you and you are unhappy with the situation you need to discuss it with your partner and work out whether things can be changed to something you are more happy with and if the relationship is salvageable.

But generally, if people are living 'as a couple' then more than sex is involved: shared finances, taking turns with the cooking or childcare or at least enjoying each other's company. Or are you talking about a relationship where the parties don't live together but meet occasionally for sex (in which case a common term is 'fuck buddy' or 'booty call' and the sex is mutually enjoyable and all either party wants from the other).

fuck buddy?

not that the other woman is clever. gawd I am not making sense tonight

Lucky

because I'm writing DH an arsy note asking if I'm just a maid and a ?????? following a "discussion" we've just had.

The sex is actually pretty good ...

but he's p*ssed me right off tonight and I've found the best way to get through to him (when "practical" things don't work) is to write a note...........but

"so am I just your maid and the women you have sex with" doesn't really have a "zing" too it (ie far to waffly )

As opposed to my DH who is with me for sex, food, and clean laundry?

oh definitely fuck buddy in that case

Friend - with 'benefits'?

yep that's the one Lynette LOL........what is the proper name for such a person??

X posts.

I would put "maid and fuck buddy"

excellent - thanks

IN this case, how about 'sex toy'?

I was going to suggest "Mug" but that is not what you are looking for.

ooo - fuck buddy or sex toy???

Thing is a sex toy can't really enjoy the sex can it??

whereas a fuck buddy can..........

lol Kinder no not quite I what was looking for

Just wondering what he cooked for his dinner?

"Mug"?

FAQ, is it really a good idea to get help from your pals on the Internet in drafting rude notes to your DH? Mightn't your time be better spent attending to the actual problem sensibly?

Lucky?