So I've been with my partner 13 years he's been through a tough time so have I, his nan passed away from cancer his dad then had cancer and his mother. We had a baby and I had a stroke 4 months after the baby. He's had a few money issues and a couple of accidents at work most recently burnt his hands 2nd degree was quite serious. He smoked weed for a lot of years and gave up 17 months ago when The baby arrived. He works hard and transfers all his wages to me every month I've never asked him to do this or asked him for anything. But ever since his nan died and the rest followed around 3 years ago he is like Jekyll and Hyde one minute ok next minute doesn't talk he has to have an opinion on everything things he knows absolutely everything and thinks he knows better than anyone else even where the baby is concerned and he does not stop drinking I'm sure he has a problem , we argue alot. I still live at home with my parents and he lives with us reason being as myself and my mother share bills always have done so it's as much my house as my mums. It's just a really awkward situation as he's coming across rude to my family aswell, this has gone on a while, I just feel so under pressure from him all the time like worried something might piss him off and then he's well rude to everyone etc. any advice xxxx