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Dh has just left to go and have his vasectomy and I am the one who is anxious.
He is one hundred percent certain it is the right descision but I feel I have been cheated somehow v hard to explain. I don't want any more chilren but regret not having a better birth experience, which can now never change !!
Also very anxious about DH recovery - Anyone else any experience of Dh having the op
Sorry for the waffle just feeling odd right now

how many children do you have? im only 19 i ve got 1son and i want another and i joked to my dp (getting married soon) that he gotta have the snip after the second baby, but i dont think id really want him to have it id prob be the one who be most upset! i feel upset even thinking of it and its not me its happening to its you! you ve got me feeling odd now!! hope it all goes orite, i ve heard it can be reversed dunno if its true tho!! find out mayb?

He has just rung to say its all done and he is on his way home but glad he is ok
I am 35 he is 40
there is no way i would let him do it if I was your age fan but I have two beautiful children and am grateul for that[smile

My dh had the "SNIP" After I had twins, I had 2 sections for both my pg.
The first was a terrible experience and there was no way I would have considered haivng the dt's naturally,but I know how you feel in feeling that you have been cheated in not having a natural birth, I am just thankful that I have 3 wonderful children and a wonderful dh who would go and get himself "snipped" just for me.

His recovery was quite quick, but he is a mad man he refused to take any pain medication, as they say not to over do it and his thoughts were "well if i can't feel it how will i know if i am over doing it"
So he suffered in silence (yeah right)

good luck and I hope you feel less odd soon

it must be a really hard decision. We have 5 dc. I am 26 and dh is 32....we have discussed it but we can't make the ultimate decision. Never say never and all that.....

Never say never until you've had twins caz

KHIN....I don't think we will risk it lol x

KHIN....I don't think we will risk it lol x

caz- lol, you've already got enough eh?