Hi,
I find this message really difficult to write 😢
My husband and I have separated after 34 years of marriage. He throw me out of our home accusing me of having affairs throughout our marriage- none of which are true ! I went to work ( nearly 10 Hours a day) and I came straight home to cook and clean for the family then walked the dog !
Anyway this happens 8 months ago , I found a home for myself and I kept reason contact with my husband bit on xmas eve he came to
My new home accusing me of assorts , he got so worked up he ended up trying to strangle / choke me . I'm still marked by his abuse mentally and physically but what upsets me more is the fact our kids (boys) want to pay him back - I have told them not to stoop to his level and to accept he has issues he needs to address (which sadly I don't think he ever will 🥺) . Am I right or wrong here ?