My neighbour commeted recently that she can tell who's clothes I've washed by the colour. Mine look like a mourning party from a distance! After i got over the shock of having my washing line subjected to such close scrutiny, I realised I own only one item that isn't black! I am a size 18 and 5'2", busty, I'm only mid 20s and but still don't want to look like mutton. Reddish brown hair - any suggestions?