It's probably safe to go to bed now

[handlemecarefully]

Heard dh go to bed about 20 mins ago, so hopefully by now he is fast asleep - hence another night where I have successfully evaded 'conjugal rights'. Oh dear - so this is what it has come to....

Know that feeling

things that bad?

Thanks for being concerned zephycat. We get on fine etc and the relationship is okay (I'm not feeling sad or low about it particularly) - just wish I could find my missing libido! It disappeared soon after I conceived dd 3 years ago, made a fleeting reappearance when she was about 10 months old and died a quiet death again when I conceived ds (who is currently 6 months). Am hoping it may be resurrected in time...but you wonder if you have just got out of the habit and will ever get back into it. Plus the lack of jiggy jiggy is causing tension as dh is frustrated!

Aww, bless him lol know how you feel tho. I get away with it tonight because match of the day is on!! On a serious note nice to hear you're ok

sounds perfectly normal to me HMC.. lost libido when conceived DS, recovered for a short time when DS over a year old, but lost it again with the stress of ttc .. hasn't come back yet and DD is 6 months

unfortunately I think that its the kind of thing that once you start doing it again you get in the swing of it

I am waiting till I can sleep through the night

You're definitely not alone here, hmc. Though I tend to go to bed first and pretnend to be asleep

I remember when I used to want to have sex