I HATE MY MOTHER INLAW

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she hates my guts and i hate her she got us thrown out of our first home.

What an odd thread. Have you had too much to drink? (sort of like the opposite of I am drunk and I think I love you)

Fwiw I love my MIL, she is nutty but makes me laugh. She is generous to a fault and does not interfere (though I am sure she moans about me to her 3 sisters, they are a bit of a witches coven when they get together, but that is her right and to be fair I moan about her to my SIL - MIL's DIL not MIL's DD - once in a while too)

I like her, she rocks!

all of the family were ignoring me so i said wats th point how petty. its cos i let my dad hold baby elwyn first and not her. so she told kristians uncle to chuck us out of his flat we was renting and said i was cheating on him and a bad mum shock! i wud never cheat ever plus i aint got time and now she says that she doesnt want to see elwyn and he can make his own decisions when he s older. he s only 6mnths i havent stopped her. its not his fault, he should have both sets of grand parents regardless if me and her don like each other. now we ve been to the police because we re getting threatening msgs off the whole lot of them. please help me, really need advice on wat to do.

Threatening messages? What did the police say to do? What does your DH/DP say?

they have given me a direct number etc im petrified to go out anywhere but thats all that they can do unless the family do summing

You sound really stressed.

Can you not move away from them? Distance can calm things.

we ve moved and summone dunno who has said where we r i really dont know wat to da. the police wont do anything.

How far away did you move? I am talking move, as in other side of country.

If you are in danger, break all ties with current friends, make telephone contact with family members (the good ones) but withold your number, so your number cannot be passed on.

Whereabouts are you?

Have you taken legal advice, most solicitors give you an hour free to go through your problem.

Have you been to the CAB to get advice?

im in wales, we ve moved to the other side of swansea, but my family is still here i don wanna move to far from them as my mum isn very well
i bumped in to em in town the other day and they had ago and didn even look at elwyn i cud av joyfull smacked her.
no aint been there CAB etc cos they ll prob say the same as the police just to report them.