Help/advice needed. I have a friend whose long term marriage is ending. She has found out that her husband has been having a "special friendship" of 18 months with a near divorced neighbour. She told me that several months ago, before she new of the "friendship" her husband initiated foreplay then got up off the bed, laughed at her and told her to "finish herself off". At this time he had apparently made up his mind to leave his wife but hadn't told her. I am at a loss how to handle this situation or what advice to give as she is wondering if it is tantamount to premeditated sexual abuse. She has told her solicitor but wondered if anyone has any thoughts, advice or pearls of wisdom I can offer. Sorry if I have offended anyone with this thread.