Hey everyone!
I was just wondering if I could get peoples opinions on my current situation?
I'm 27 weeks pregnant still living with my parents and the baby's dad split up with me a couple of days after I found out when I was about 2-3 weeks pregnant. We have still been seeing each other on and off since however he has also been seeing another girl since we split up and he has been back and forth between us both. He wants to be fully involved with the baby which is a good thing, he has been very supportive and willing with everything baby related.
He has chosen now to be with this girl and it has been said he can't keep jumping back and forth because it is not fair on anyone. Apparently this girl is saying she is completely fine with him coming to my parents house every day to spend all day with the baby, he has even asked if he can stay overnight which I am reluctant to as there is no where for him to sleep.
I'm worried that there are going to be arguments and that he won't actually get to spend time with the baby.
So my question is:
If you were the girl he is seeing, would you be okay with your boyfriend going to see his ex and his baby all day, every day and staying there overnight?
I feel like if it was the other way round, I wouldn't be okay with it because I know they have a past and that they were still seeing each other during the pregnancy but am I overthinking it?