Dp's not expecting me to go to his til saturday but im going friday and surprising him at work (works at a cinema so will go and watch a film whilst waiting for him to finish) but should i warn his brother that i am doing this? Him and his brother aren't really getting on too well at the moment so not sure if I told his bro that he would go and tell dp or not? But his brother is going to his dp's on Saturday so wont be seeing much of him anyway. Not exactly much of a dilemna but dont want to tell him then for him to go and tell dp what Im doing, but then not tell him and he thinks im rude for not warning him. Sorry if that last bit was a bit confusing. xxx