My partner is a joke and I'm only just beginning to realise this...hes very childish and struggles to hold down a full time job hus whole life I recently posted as he messed up at work there are three sites locally they moved him from one to another around two years ago as he was having problems getting along with others and its happend again they moved him to the farthest away site as yet again someone asking him to do things he takes as someone getting at him and annoyed his attitude is crap they've put him at the new site and it's this or nothing I'm having to incur the extra costs of fuel which when I'm on a min wage job working nights in care to provide I could do without.im fumeing and I'm annoyed it's only recently I've had my eyes opened as to his attitude with me also example he wants afew beers from shop.....hes not a alcoholic few beers on a fri I can be ok with gives me his bank card to go to shop......gets shitty when I say go your fricking self I'm on nights again tonight and was on nights last night I'm tired want to get tea shower relax he helps out on weekend but no during week I cannot afford to live in my house with my wage .......thing that's keeping me here.... my gorgeous dog love of my life mum will let me live with her but not dog no way....and I like am used to having my own house my stuff my way etc I am in such a situation and really in a way I'm trying to stop running round after him and in allowing more time for me what I want etc please dont say leave as it's not that easy rant over