ooooo - what a shame.........not...................

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I've just realised that with DH doing training at work now as well as the sales it means I won't be able to go back to my job doing night shifts as he could be away for up to a week at a time.

woohoo - I've got a good genuine excuse for why I'll not return to that sh*t hole

Sorry - just felt the need to share

mind you it does also mean that I'll have to find something in the day that covers the cost of childcare for at least DS3 (probably do mornings as DH will still be afternoon's only when he's not training)........

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noooo - things fell through with the lodgers that were going to move in when I moved out - and that (and I think possibly his sister) persauded him to go to Relate - we only went to the one session - but it was enough to put everything "on the table" so to speak and we've been slowly "rebuilding" our relationship. Started off back in January as "friends" - now there's a quick kiss before he leaves for work and before bed - so very slow - but steady progress in the right direction

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thanks . I do find it slightly frustrating at times how slowly things are rebuilding - but then I just remind myself that it took 2/3yrs to get to the stage we were at...so obviously it's going to take time to get it back (especially with 3 DS's to fit into it all LOL).

of course the next question is what sort of job do I look for that's part time - mornings only??????