I need some advice please!

[Sassy9]

Hi, I have been having a think about my life recently and something is really bugging me! My eldest child is 25 years old, his father stopped all contact and payments for him when he was 4 (his choice not ours) am I totally mad to want to chase him for the lack of money over the years? If I am not insane, where on earth would I go for advice? If anyone could help I’d appreciate it. TIA

I never received a penny didn’t either of my now adult children who are in their 20s. The CSA were beyond useless.

You need to let go and instead feel proud that you raised him without the extra financial help. Focus on that and not what should have been.

You won’t get anywhere if you try a legal route now.