i have question oabout cleaning bottoms.
i was raised in a muslim country, and we are taught there to use water to clean ourselves with as using only tissues isnt considered clean enough, or hygienic enough. in the middle east, most if not all toilets would have either a bidet or at least a shower attachment type thing to spray water on your bum . in other places they have a jug to carry water into the toilet with you, and you then use your left hand along with pouring the water to wipe your bum clean, then you wash your hand. very important that bit.
my mil will clean my dc like this. i have told them that no one else is allowed to do this. but it worries me. how can i tell them no one is allowed to touch their privates, when in mil's houes, their is rarely any toilet paper.
anyone have this situation and know how to deal with it?