Hi. My OH is a kind but very quiet man. He will not discuss feelings and is not affectionate in any way after living together for two years now. We were engaged over forty years ago went our separate ways which was due to me deciding to marry someone else!
We started an affair in 2015 which resulted in his wife asking him to leave the marital home in 2016. They had an unhappy marriage but I don't think he would have left her voluntarily as he hates confronting people. We do get on and our personal life is very good! I just feel rather let down but I suppose it's karma due to having an affair and blame my self for flirting on Facebook.