Happens alot in my life, friends come and go I end up thinking I must be a horrible person who no one really wants to stay friends with. Then I realise most so called friends only want me when I'm useful to them. i.e. colleagues I think are my friends, suddenly stop being available, when I'm not responsible for signing holidays, bonuses etc..Friends who were your boss, who suddenly don't need you to cover for them .. don't feel I can say anything, because i realise how pathetic it sounds....anyone else feel this or just me..