So, Is she the evil, homewrecking other woman ... answer YES OR NO only please

[Twiglett]

from this thread

I say YES

You know that woman may well lack remorse but why the need to admonish her repeatedly? How does it affect any of us, her dh's ex probably is well over him and as I said earlier had a lucky escape from a lying cheating man who didn't love her.
This thread and 90 per cent of the other one serve no purpose at all other than to upset a lone poster and offer some kind of smug satisfaction to those who can't conceive of ever fucking up.

Then give her an opinion , even if she doesn't like it - but don't start another thread in this vein. It's nasty.

There's something of the school playground about it.

No, I dont think she is.

no, certainly don't think she is......the bloke was old enough to make his own decision about leaving his wife surely if he was happy he wouldn't have left!!!

she asked for the opinions, she got mine, i do see the other side of things, but a better justification from her would have been that she just fell in love with DP rather than feel she had to "rescue" him from a dreary wife who no longer met his needs (you see, she could be talking about me here!). So i will change my stance a little and say that this woman is not the evil homewrecker because to be fair to her, if it wasnt her then it most likely would have been someone else. I DO however think her DP is a prick! Again, i shouldnt probably even say that because it might just be that his first wife was a bitch from hell, just a shame he didnt work that out before they brought another life into the world.

I'm not criticising anyone for giving an opinion, Hatrick, just for starting a pointless windictive thread such as this

vindictive

oh will you bunch of high-minded know it alls just fark orf

this was in response to her thread which was very much a discussion, I thought it was a good idea at the time to get a numerical response rather than the endless discussion - I was honestly expecting most people to say NO

It was pointed out by people I respect that it wasn't such a good idea .. so I apologised .. on here and the original discussion thread

and then I thought I'd let it die thinking that might be the end of it .

so truly cannot understand why I'm not allowed a mistake an apology and just to let it lie .. or is it just that you like the sound of your own voices so fecking much that you need to keep bumping it ..

No Hatrick I have given my opinion on the other thread much earlier today, it is a discussion forum and she invited opinions. And predictably she was admonished, mainly imo for her lack of remorse which is the odd thing really. But this thread is ugly.

Yes.... sort of.

(Yeah I know that's not an option!).

Not the only one to blame, marriage already with issues blah blah blah, but you don't take what isn't yours.

If someone's heart is meant to be with another, it isn't available until BOTH parties (the original couple) know that the situation has changed (eg he has left his wife!).

If the marriage is broke and you are meant to be together, then do it when they have broken up.

Ok - didn't see the apology - I will "fark off"

Just scrolled through the thread and see its kicked off - sorry for adding!!!

yes

Fair enough, I would ask for it to be removed if I were you.

why starts threads about other members, some people must thrive on rows, hope it gets pulled

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so why another ?

She's apologised on both threads.
Let it lie.

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I don't see what was so wrong with twig starting the other thread TBH

I've never heard of wangbang or whatever you call it but 4 is significant in mumsnetland

never saw apology, so apology accepted

Yes, She is a 'homewrecking other woman', as the bloke was married at the time

(Think evil goes a bit far)