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A different perspective about leaving a child alone

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chocolatekimmy · 10/05/2007 22:00

There is one point that doesn't appear to be coming across in the numerous postings and articles since the disappearance of Madeleine McCann.

When a parent makes a decision to leave a child to 'pop out' for a while or however long it happens to be - do they not consider something happening to them whilst out that prevents them from returning to their child who is then left alone and defenceles without anyone realising it.

It never crossed my mind until I mentioned to my mum about someone I know who used to put her very young baby 'safe' in her cot to go out running to get rid of some of the stress she had from the babies crying (despite much protest). She felt that no harm could come to the baby (aside from considering fire etc). My mum just said - "so what happens if she gets run over and killed or injured badly and no one knows that the baby is at home alone"?

Its just another consideration for those that make that decision.

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belgo · 11/05/2007 17:31

Fillyjonk - i'm not attacking you! Sorry if you feel that way! I just wanted to discuss another perspective.

Fillyjonk · 11/05/2007 17:41

ah ok, sorry

(leaving thread like feck)

just read it wrong, i guess

it works for me, my two are very inquisitive and always need to check out new things, I don't go into that many stairgated places outside home. if they couldnt get down stairs alone i'd be in real trouble, tbh.

belgo · 11/05/2007 17:47

Fillyjonk - you have a perfectly valid viewpoint, and I know many people who agree with you, especially here in Belgium

I suppose it's probably a reflection on my upbringing/experiences that make me what some people would call overcautious

Fillyjonk · 11/05/2007 18:06

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GiantSquirrelSpotter · 12/05/2007 11:20

I always had a stairgate because I was too lazy not to.

I think if you have the energy and patience to teach your kids to go down stairs safely, good for you and it certainly sounds a sensible approach. I just couldn't be arsed.

OTOH I can be arsed to do other stuff which some people couldn't.

Horses for courses and all that.

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