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Advice on workplace crushes

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Olilou01 · 22/08/2017 20:48

Hi, please can someone help me out, I dnt know if this is a crush or what it is, I'd love some advice on what to do next and what you think k is happening with him.

Walking in to work one day yr or so ago, I noticed a new guy moving into the building, he checked me out and stood staring for so long that someone behind him told him R to stop blocking the doorway, anyhows thought nothing of this and carried on, the next time I I saw him was when I was having my break time outside and on the phone, then he came out for behinds wall beside me and stood infront of me smiling and trying to catch my gaze, sorry if I'm boring u but il get to the point, anyhows the next few times where kinda the same, however one time he came from behind me and threw himself on a wall stood staring at me smiling and looking at me, at is time I was seeing someone so to be faithful I never really entertained him, I have changed my look recently and I know he has noticed... We have never spoken in the whole yr this has been going on, but a few weeks back I got the courage, I wasn't seeing my guy anymore and thought he is still staring at me and catching my eye, why not see where it goes, I walked past him an said aren't u going to say good morning, he looked slightly embarrassed and I walked off but not without waiting a sec or two to see if he smiles which he did, anyhows since then, he was out side on a break at the same time which seems to happen a lot lately even to the point peeps at work said he is always around me, we were down stairs on a break and I was looking around and suddenly I stupidly looked at him during my looking around, this is what I need advice on, when I had looked away a voice came from beside me and says are u okay, I looked at him and said yeah I'm fine, he said are u sure, i said yeah and u?. Then I looked away and it went silent, during this time I thought let me look back and sure enough he did as well, only this time he started nodding at me and smiling then it went silent, he didn't carry the convo on and neither did it because I didn't know if he was making a move with this.. I was however walking about nervously whilst we were outside so I knw he could of been asking abt that, but he has never spoken to me until few weeks ago. Does anyone think this was him making a move, I am off work for few weeks for compassionate reasons and anticipating what's going to happen next..
Ps I have noticed now that he stares from other side of break area and if I look up he looks away but he seems to hide just out of view now.. ????? Helpppp ..

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Olilou01 · 23/08/2017 22:56

Bump.

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maudeismyfavouritepony · 23/08/2017 22:59

He has a crush but isn't free to, or is very inhibited and can't take it further? Do you fancy him?

Olilou01 · 24/08/2017 22:59

Yes I do. Its hard not to now, seeing as I see stuff happening when he is abt. Y would he start convo if he isn't free, he lasted a yr so far with just actions, I knw I looked at him by accident when we were outside alone, which sparked his are u ok comment, yeah, then he replies are u sure, I dnt wanna make idiot of self. Can't stop thinking of him.
Seriously need help here.

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Olilou01 · 25/08/2017 03:55

Bump

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Olilou01 · 25/08/2017 21:32

Any other advice ?.......

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