im being lazy !!!

[nikcola]

help me girls im still in my jim jams the house is a tip and dd is plonked on the sofa with a huge bag of sweets and watching tweenies, ive got loads to do but dont want to move

tell dd to move up and join her on the sofa. I would

she wont share her sweets though

i need a kick up the bum !!!

are you dressed?

LOL nikcola, that's what SAHM's are supposed to do

im wearing a old stinky jumper and baggy traksuit bottoms, dd is dressed !!! oh ive brushed my teeth and changed my pants!!

errr. go and get dressed and tidy up

oh i wish i could do that!!!! make the most of it!!! i have too much to do though...if i dont do it then i will have twice as much to do tomorrow. i have got to go out in a bit in the puring rain with dd and ds2 to go get ds1 from nursery....urgh!!!

this is the plan

1. wash up
2. get dressed
3. bribe dd to go in buggy
4. get 2 buses to town get some meat + other crap that we need
5. come back and eye up the bums outside

really i just want to eat crap and watch telly

what is everyone else doin???

oh sod it nickola!!! weathers too crap to go out....let alone on two buses!!!! stay in....discover tescos online!!!

Nikcola,

Stay as you are, eat something out of the freezer/packets/takeaway tonight, think how much you've saved not going shopping on the bus, and vow to make a better start tomorrow.

I'm supposed to be ironing

ive got loads of iorning to do too!!
ok im staying in im going to help dd with her paining i cant do my shopping on line well i can but not meat cause i have to get in from a halal meat shop and the nearest one is 2 bloody buses away i cant wait to pass my driving test!

i ment painting !!

coddy start a funny thread pleeese,

dd has just shouted at me for eating her mini chedders

Why do you get your meat from the Halal shop??

(Hope its not cause of x2bp??)

we have allways eaten it from there i dont see why i should stop even though it is bloody far !

at the end of the day she is muslim and im not going to change that, but thats really the only think i stick too is buying halal meat we dont eat pork and thats about it really

Oh ok - just thought if you didn't have to cater for DP anymore you could start taking control of parts of your life and this could be the first thing??

How is the other thing??

i no what you mean but its just that she was born a muslim and i want her to stay that way im not thinking of him but of her iykwim, ive got my collage test next week so my life is getting on track now !! the other thing well ive got my appointment next tuesday

Well good luck on both the other thing and your college test - I am sure you will be ok with both of them.

As for the muslim thing - I would not bring any child up a religeon that I myself did not practice and especially one that made my life harder if the other parent had done a bunk and treated me the way your DP had - you daughter was born a human child and your DP chose for her to be a muslim - if he can't be around to help and support with that I don't think you should have to - are you going to take her to the mosque when she is older??

Wat religeon are you??

Don't want to get at you I am just so fuming on your behalf at the way he has treated both of you and feel that you should make decisions based on you and her and discount him to a degree - take back you life and you will become a stronger person.

Anyway Good Luck XXX

im muslim too, i converted 2 years ago, i no what you mean, i dont no i might take her to the mosque i would like to, as for me and dp i really dont no what is going on with me and him i dont no weather we are together or not but ill cope i suppose , thanks for the chat twinkie xxxxxx