dh has just really arsey about me going on here and says he doesn't like it, why because it's secretive....if I was in a bar I could be up to all sorts....when are these men going to realise that women talk, all day every day (our friends don't or possibly can't talk many hours of the day) and this site helps lots of people and people even make friends here too!....why can't we have our time without having to explain every last detail (I went for the I don't like you drinking at 8.30am every day on your day off and w/e's and he thinks I'm being unreasonable)....grrrr....know I've started a lot of threads recently but I'll answer anyone else's threads if I have any experience at all...thanks for reading