For anyone who remembers and is interested... although I took pictures of dd and her strawberry straightaway and dh took them to work to put online, it still hasn't happened... now it seems so long ago, I wonder if it's worth while nagging about (when there is so much else to focus on. Eg putting up garden fence.) ANYWAY, the article I wrote when the original was lost is out in current Real magazine with picture... maybe you could have a flick through while in the newsagent... I mentioned mumsnet, so hope the reference is still there (haven't seen it yet). dd and S are still very much an item. Thanks again!