ds2 (20 months) is the none sleeper, used to be great until a week or so ago, had 2 sleeps in the day and settled well at night. recently tho he has had no sleep inteh day (not for lack of trying) and at night he will go to sleep eventually in his cot but will wake crying every hour or so and not settle until i go into him (Dp useless as he shouts which wakes ds1 up so then 2 of them are awake),spent from 1:30 last night on thye sofa but he wouldnt settle so he ended up inour bed from 3 which, of course resulted in him sleeping starfished on my side so i couldn't even turn over! at least he was asleep!
ds1 eats like a sparrow, he was never a great eater but his list of foods he will eat is very very small now. i have run out of ideas, i have tried the not stressing, i have tried getting him involved inshopping/making/serving even, i have tried feeding him purely the things on his known list but the lastfew days i canprobably count what he has eaten on one hand it took him an hour to eat beans and toast tonight which he wil usually gobbledown. we have no snacks in the day now in an effort to get him to eat something, although if he asks for fruit he can have it (he hasn;t asked for a very long time though)
I just want 1 meal and one night to be nice [anger]