Did I just dream that thread about partners increasing violence?

[nothercules]

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It has been deleted.

no, i posted on it

I know, where did it go? One minute it was there and then .....

has it ?

How strange.

yeah its not anywhere. oh well. hopefully she will get some help

Why?

I hope it wasnt a wind up...

It was a bizarre thread, went from one extreme to another.

My thoughts exactly northercules.

I think i'm going to give up posting on threads because so many get deleted now

it was rather heavy reading/going wasnt it?

It was a little .... odd

do you think it was

i stopped posting as seemed a bit off the OP didn;t want any advice, just endorsement, then said she was leaving

hope if it is real, she is ok and the kids

But why would anyone 'wind up' people like that. I mean, about that particular subject. It wasn't obviously a wind up, so why was it deleted all of a sudden?

i just wanted to make sure that she knew help was out there and where to get it. if it was real.

I didn't think it was a wind up

but what happened in the last few posts then

maybe OP had had enough of it being discussed? i dont know.

I just wanted to shake her till her teeth rattled and she saw some sense. In a metaphorical way of course.

If it was a piss take - HA HA, oooooh my ribs ache. If it wasn't

the same-telling or advising her to get some help.

she then said she wanted to leave and her mum was coming to get her at 4pm. thats as far as i got.

i agree with meowmix's last sentence.

Maybe she was worried that he would find her posting on MN?

I got the impression that she was - may be both were - very young.

i didnt really get a young impression-maybe because im quite young too? not implying anything!!

there probably is a million reasons why she could of deleted it.

I guess she wanted us to say that it'd be alright just buy some scented oils and make a roast once a week and we didn't. Deeply worrying post.

Hope my post (which I admit was POINTED) didn't drive her away.

I do wish we'd at least get a "Thread deleted at MNers request" or something. Bit like being in school where you're suddenly not allowed to talk about it.