ARRGHHHH!!!! I am pissed off.. DH and I are both stay at parents as we have 2 disabled kids. We both get Carers allowence, and a few weeks back he recieved a letter saying they needed to check he was still entitled and he had to sign and date the letter. He didn't do it!! and now his CA has been stopped!!!!! As a result we are now over our overdraft, and will be charged on monday. WE have no money till wednesday. Its one bloodly letter a year that he has to do, I deal with everything else moneywise... just for once I would like him to take control of somthing!!!!