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NEIGHBOURS HARASSING ME PLZ HELP

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tjgx · 16/11/2006 13:53

Hi all this is long but its very serious,i really need some help!!ok i did an exchange in may been here 6 months,ive 2 teenage girls 1 of 15 1 0f 13 both dds i also have a ds of 17 months old,the lady who i exchanged with was a really good friend,she did warn me that the neighbours dont like black people herself n her family are black,n they gave her a really hard time when she lived here,it did worry me a little as dds are white but my ds is mixed,i didnt think no more of this,she also warned me that the ones rite nx door 2 me are very nice to your face but behind you bk they will slag you off,but i take ppl at face value n make my own mind up,i moved in evything was fine n dandy,until 1 of neighbours across the street started to moan that boys was up here now ive 2 dds teenagers kids are going to knock on my door 4 them,thats part of life,my dds arent allowed out until 6pm when dinner is all over,they have 2 be in by 9pm,my 13 has 2 be in at 830pm if my 15yr old isnt out,3 maybe 4 boys will knock at 6 my girls go out 2 park down by this river place they do not hang on the street..there was a bnch of kids from this road and a few others from around the area that my dds used 2 hang with,they no longer hang with them,but this group hangs around up this end of the street,now her acoss the road has come out untold times using foul language to these kids,,3 weeks ago her friend who lives nx door came out n screamed at me even offered me out 4 a fight saying she hates kids n doesnt want them on this street.i told her the gang has nothing to do with my girls u should go speak to there mums,they call these kids c..ts fk off all that...which i think is below the belt..now firstly i wouldnt have noise outside my door as my ds bedroom window is there and he is in bed by 6pm,if my girls go out the boys bring them bk by 8.50pm they will talk outside 4 say 15 mins then my 2 come in,it is a very quiet street if somebody 10 dorrs down held a conversation you would hear them,so if theres 5 of them outside my door you can hear them laughing n joking but thats it,there kids,nx thing the nx door ones have come out a few times and also verbally abuse these kids..i did report all this to the nuisance team who told me not to worry,i said i would be the first out there if these kids make noise because of my baby,then nx door on saturday hammerding at my door i went down stairs n the husband was there he screaming at me calling the kids c..ts i said wats the matter he says they are leaning on my wall im not fking haveing it i asked him not to speak to me in that manner,i also said 2 him thats very brave on you a man getting in a womans face i live by self im single i was scared n i got a fright,i did call police so they logged it down.now when i moved in remember what i told you what my friend had gone through well the neighbour did say o she had loads of blacks going in out of the property and hanging around outside we was intimadated,the conversation left me feeling very uncomftable as my son is mixed,ive come now to think these people are doing this because the kids at my door are black and they donr like it i could be wrong but it just seems weird that the last tenant went through the same thing,now the neighbour did come bk and apologise to me he said sorry n we left it at that,he siad the wall is unsafe blah blah,im council he is buying his house,nx thing i know after the apology they then reported me to the council and ive the nuisance team coming out again on monday,she said shes had more complaints,i know she does beleave me cause im being onest my girls n the other kids aho knock are not doing a thing wrong,plus my girl only out for 3 hours every day this is a joke,all three neighbours are best friends they have their own little click so if one is upset they all are..i feel im being targetd..ive 3 kids i cant hide them i cant lock them away they are enetitled to have friends knock nuisance team tol dme she will see me on monday 4 a better chat,,she said the residents are scared and intimadated,,i said well that sfunny cuase thats exactly what they said about the last tenant! n to top it off none of them are that scared if they can come out n abuse the kids they way they do,not evry child that hangs here are 2 do with my kids,its a public street..plz help i dont know how to handle this sorry its long x

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Drusilla · 16/11/2006 14:12

That's a bit too much to read without paragraphs, I'm afraid

tjgx · 16/11/2006 14:17

o im sorry didnt think x

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saadia · 16/11/2006 14:39

well I read it and I do sympathise, but I'm not sure that I would let my teenage dds of 15 and 13 out for so long in the evenings. I think your neighbours are out of order, but TBH I would not want groups of teenagers hanging around outside my house either.

tjgx · 16/11/2006 15:24

hi saadia,dds are only 5 mins away when they are out,both have mobiles they are very safe with the boys with them,that side of things im fine with,th eboys that do knock 2 are 4 my 15 ur old n 2 is friends of the 13 yr old,whether i was wrong or right this group of neighbours dont want kids living on this street let alone 4 knocking at my door,its really stupid,i dont complain about th ethings they do i wouldnt do tit 4 tat,but my girls are extremely respectful very polite,and i dont see what the problem is,if they was absuive n stuff like that i could fully understand,but this is all innocent stuff that they are moaning back and making false allegations of things not being true.

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