It's difficult to predict or work out what to do with this situation so really hoping for some insight from mums/women who understand where I'm coming from... I've recently given up my flat to stay with my parents during the week to easily get to work in Bognor Regis (from Worthing which I loved) and have moved my stuff in with my boyfriend who lives in Woking who I stay with at weekends (and occasional week evenings). I'm 34 so moving in with the folks was a difficult choice but felt I needed to save some money (long distance relationships can be expensive in petrol!). I love my job but have been broody a long time and we want to start a family. I've just been given a promotion at work and know I'll be unpopular to reveal pregnancy! I don't know how to work out the logistics!? He owns his flat in woking but I like my job and have a close support network on the coast. He will find it hard to get a well paying job down here. will it become obvious to know what to do? I'd hate to throw away a great job but maybe I won't care later on?! I feel I need to get cracking with the baby stuff as I'll go mad having to wait longer! Any insights/opinions or experiences welcome!