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Words cant express how angry I am atm

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TambaTheVampireSlayer · 03/10/2006 16:08

May be long.

Basically my Mother and Father split up when I was about 11 and he re married when I was 16. He had other children with his new wife, 2 girls and a boy.

He had a friend called Dave who was always round our house and after he left was always round at my dads new house. Then he disappeared for a while and wasnt seen. He had been sent to prison for abusing his daughters. My dad didnt believe he was guilty and said it was his ex wife lying and making her girls lie for her. His new wife, my step mom also believed things had been blown out of proportion.

When he got out of prison things went back to how they were before with Dave being at there house alot. He used to stay over and due to lack of room my dad would let him sleep in the girls room with them. Aparntly he would have one of the single beds and the girls would have the other. They must have been about 5 and 7 years old back then. He would take them swimming and babysit for them alot.

A year or so later my sister went to live with them too and was there for about 12 months.

Fast forward to now. He has been accused by my step sister of abusing her. She is about 13 now. But when she told, she wasnt believed by my dad and step dad cause 'his mate would never so that' but now another girl has independantly come forward and accused him too so the police are involved.

I think my dad should be charged with abbetting the pervert. He provided him with a young girl and a safe place to abuse her IMO. He has failed his family and let his daughters down in the worst possible was, as has my step mom. They are scum and dont deserve to have their children with them. I believe that they are due a prison sentance along with the pevert.

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Piffle · 03/10/2006 16:12

No matter how much I loved trusted adored anyone I'd never ever put a man ina room overngiht with 2 young girls
Not my brothers, BIL, grandoa/father
No one
let alone after a conviction FFS
Do they think people get convicted on bullshit rumours?
I agree - culpability - at least morally indefensible

TambaTheVampireSlayer · 03/10/2006 16:14

It was common knowlege that he is a pervert. When my mon would take us to visit, if he was there she would take us straight home again. She did her job as a parent and protected us.

I hope to God he never touched my sister. She is 21 now and doesnt know about any of this yet.

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lemonaid · 03/10/2006 16:16

Legally he'll be in the clear, but morally I agree with you 100%. What a pathetic excuse for a parent.

Bozza · 03/10/2006 16:16

Tamba how awful for your stepsister and a lucky escape for you by the sounds of it. I can't believe that your Dad and stepmum allowed that to happen.

TambaTheVampireSlayer · 03/10/2006 16:20

I remember he used to stay over alot. Somewhere in my memory I recall seeing quilts in the living room and my dad, step mom and him all lying in them. But dont know if thats a real memory or if I imagened it.

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Bozza · 03/10/2006 16:22

I would bet it is a real memory.

shhhh · 03/10/2006 16:23

My mum was shocked when I told her that dh & I never wanted dd to stay out anywhere..not even at gp's. I have no reason to think it at all BUT I couldn't allow anyone other than dh & I to have that contact with dd. Mum couldn't believe what I was saying BUT sadly in this day and age thats how things have gone.

Mums neighbours gs stays over at the gp's and he gets into bed with them...They couldn't believe or understand why their dil was totally against this and went mad at the idea. Mum couldn't understand why I agreed with the dil either...

Its a sad sad world and I feel sorry for you tamba and your family . People like that deserve the worse way of dying ever. IMO.

TambaTheVampireSlayer · 03/10/2006 16:26

I also remember staying over one night when I was younger (I have no idea of ages or month of the year or anything - just a faded memory) and having my step sister who was still very young maybe 7 kissing me full on the mouth when we were in bed and trying to put her tongue in my mouth and imitating sexual movements. Actually I was about 14 I think cause it was when they lived in Lincoln and I would steal there fag ends out of the ashtray. I remember wondering if I should say something to anyone but thought I might get told off so never did.

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shhhh · 03/10/2006 16:31
Sad
LadyDooM · 03/10/2006 16:36

Doesn't help when the ones that do get caught and convicted are basically get a short holiday and back out doing it again.

LadyDooM · 03/10/2006 16:39

Oh and thats if they are caught and convicted. You know cus they have all them rights... where the victim doesnt seem to have any...

TambaTheVampireSlayer · 03/10/2006 17:06

There should be some sort of law that punishes people for giving a convicted peadofile access to your children. It makes you think awful things when you find out stuff like this. Did my dad know and just not care? Did he know and allow it to happen? Did he get off on it? Is he just pathetically stupid? And what about my step mother? They seriously dont deserve children. All those kids are fucked up one way or another due to the shit parenting they have had.

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