Is it wrong to have the hots for your step-brother? He was my first boyfriend - we held hands when I was 10 but that was as far as it ever went! We spent a lot of time together until we were about 17 when we went off and lived our own separate lives. We have recently got back in touch and are very close in a funny sort of way. I feel very protective towards him as he has (to put it mildly) had a very hard time over the last year or so. Im very pleased for him when he goes on dates as I want him to be happy but there is a tinge of jealousy lurking also. I think perhaps there is something wrong with me as I once had a long standing relationship with a ginger bloke. Any suggestions?