What an absolutely gorgeous picture! So hard to believe such a happy, lively, good-looking bloke could posssibly have died in such a way. And I don't know how I imagined you but you don't look like I imagined you! (How do you find time by the way to do all you do??? Internet posts, blogging, arts and crafts, and have a life?! More than I manage!!)
Also, if you don't mind me asking, I remember on your first shocking post re Nigel's death you mentioned he had ear-ache and thought he was getting a chest infection. This has bothered me ever since. Were these early warning signs? Should we all take note if our DPs mention these?
It's bothering me. Sorry to hijack this thread.
Sorry to be so blunt, but if it is relevant, I'm sure you'd want to prevent anyone else going thru what you're going thru.