Hiya Emma & fussymummy,
Well i phoned the housing manager today told him my reason for not taking the temp accomadation said it would be to much of a risk to my sons life as he is an escapy & has no sense of safety, he said it is a valid reason but i have to put it in in writing to him (which i have now done) i am now actually moving into my mums already over crowded house ayt the weekend, she has 3 bedrooms but my mum, my sis & my brother live there so there will be those 3 plus me, dp & our 2 kids how ridiculous is that? we will be literally sleeping where ever!!!
I am totally not looking forward to it, there is 3 houses i am going to put bids in for when i can actually enter the site its to busy will try late tonight or early morning.
We are officially homeless from sunday, saturday we are doing the big move & putting all our furniture into storage until god knows....
Sunday i will be cleaing this house & sorting it out i am so exhausted i can hardly walk having to do all this along with running a house day to day & look after 2 kids is totally killing me..
I will hopefully have the net at my mums she said i could bring compute & get the internet so thats cool, i should be online sometime next week after saturday, i need to come & talk on here it really does help.
When i can get back on the site i will have a look at the 2 bed places for you if you like? you don' drive do you emma? i know a couple of the places anyway so once i can see them again i will let you know if that can help you.
Crap situation to be & i can not wait for us both to come out the other side, we can look back on this thread & see what we went through
I will pop back on tomorrow, let me know anything else you find out & same here.
Oh one thing i did find out from manager was your priority date is the date you went into the bacd you are in so say you have been on the list for 2 yrs & you would have been in band F & still are you have more priority than someone who has been on the list for 1 yr in band F, but say in august 2006 you moved to band D then your priority date will start from august which is not so good, so evertime you move up a band your priority date changes to the date you moved up, if you see what i mean?
I am in band D but i only moved into it about 3 weeks ago so if someone comes along who has been in band D for 2 months & they bid on the same house as me they will get the property, crap don't you think?
Anyway must sort the kids out & carry on packing, got the carpet cleaners into tomorrow morning...
Take care & wishing you all the luck in the world xx