Would you think i was a saddo if..

[EvesMama]

we had just met at a bbq, i had known your husband for many years as a friend of my cousin and at party out two girls got on like house on fire..would you then scream desperado if i offerd you my(dd's) phone number for the two gils to meet up and play sometime??

Not at all

Id probably offer my number as i love DD mixing but if she hasnt then go for it

no of course not, if it were me, id be very pleased

this is the way friendships are made .. good for you

i didnt ask for thiers, i just said to thier dd, why dont i give your mum my dd's number and if you both want to play, your mum can ring me?..then when leaving i asked her dad to put our number in his phone..he passed it to his dw and she took number ..but with him passing phone to dw, i felt a bit like oops have i crossed a barrier of friendly or scary here?
i really did/do get on with girls dad as he was one of cousin/brothers friends who used to look out for me whe i first started going out and we were chatting along with his wife and my dp all afty..just i sometimes feel i look a bit to desperate

Not at all. Would assume that he doesn't know how to use his phone very well!

I would imagine the main thing she'll remember about you is how well you get on with DH. So if she is anything like me she'll invite you round to suss you out properly and show off her lully lully marriage and once convinced you're not a threat you'll be best friends. So maybe you should be the scared one LOL

(phone noise)

You're worrying me now - why would that be sad?

gosh no, I'd be thrilled and be ringing you like a shot!

i just feel like i may impose myself on people by doing these things..she might not have liked me at all and maybe was just being polite then i go and force my number on her

I'd be pleased.

thanks girls
im not sat waiting for a call or anything god ive got loads to be doing with move, but just wanted to determine wether i was seen as a scary stalker to anyone with dd's my dd's age