Children from past relationships and problems! Any Second Wives or Long term partners?

[chocolatemummy]

anyone else here from the other side of the coin, I see lots about ex partners/husbands and how crap they are at paying for or looking after their kids and about new wives or partners not having a clue or being seen very negatively, Anyone from the other side here because I know I am and it ain't easy being here either

yeha I am and its not easy at all even tho we have an ok relationship with dp's x. there are quite a few of us. Check out the step-parenting threads

yeah i think I might, have never loked actually but often read threads and get very dissapointed at how we are portrayed