Does anyone have more than 3 children and work full-time?

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...and if so, how do you manage?

This is NOT a judgement thread or a SAHM/WOHM thing. I am thinking about our future as a family and would be really interested to hear how people with larger families do it. Does having a lot of kids mean you have to be a SAHM permanently, or is the childcare/holidays/housework etc do-able with a full-time job?

FOT, I am very happy with the changes - but it depends on your priorities.

We have no money to spare but I have time with my children that I really value.

Things are not as rushed (although with 4 it will always be busy) and I am much less stressed than I was, the housework happens occasionally and the garden has been reduced to a small jungle

I think it is something you have to try out and keep trying until you get the set-up that works best for you personally.