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Some slapper at dh's work fancies him and is making lewd comments.....

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Northerner · 14/05/2006 12:27

Can't post what she does or says because it is vile. Dh is very honest so that's why he tells me.

He won't report it because 'he can handle it' and I guess men just don't do they?

I am so mad because I think she is totally crossing the line and part of me wants to scratch her eyes out.

I don't know her, have never met her so not really anything I can do.

Just wanted to vent really, what type of women must she be to behave like this towards a married man?

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Northerner · 14/05/2006 13:24

Things like 'come here and let me sit on your c**k' and 'thinking about you makes me wet'

She says this infront of the bosses, they all laugh because they know what she's like.

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GDG · 14/05/2006 13:28

ShockShockShock

LadyTophamHatt · 14/05/2006 13:29

OH...MY....GOD!

I'd be down there waiting for her with a f*cking baseball bat!

Ok, wellmmaybe not but I would go down there and tell her that if she says anything like that again I'll get her sacked....and tell her husband too.

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Northerner · 14/05/2006 13:31

I know, it's bad isn't it. Get the feeling that her husband would not be that intesested.

Apparantly she has a bit of a reputation, is a little dim, and is always covered in lovebites.

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littlerach · 14/05/2006 13:34
Shock

Imagine if a bloke said something like that to a woman?

ounds like a lovely woman, mind Wink

LadyTophamHatt · 14/05/2006 13:36

hmm...lovebites...how nice!!!

go down there and have a word with her, I think thats the only way to stop TBH.

TambaTheDragonSlayer · 14/05/2006 13:40

Im going to sound awful but i'd go down the "Oi what the fuck do you think youre playing at route"

snafu · 14/05/2006 13:41

Ewww, yuk - but I'd be far less bothered by outrageously vile comments like that than a woman who was trying it on in a more subtle way.
I can't imagine anyone takes her even a tiny bit seriously.

I wouldn't waste my energy on worrying about her - certainly wouldn't bother confronting her. She sounds like a sad, skanky case.

LadyTophamHatt · 14/05/2006 13:43

actually, thats a good point snafu.

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Northerner · 14/05/2006 13:45

Yes, it is a good point.

I forgot to mention the classy crotch rubbing against dh leg whilst 'squeezing' past him.

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Starryshine · 14/05/2006 13:47

Could suggest a career change to her - prostitute sounds right up her street!

NingNangTakethat · 14/05/2006 13:51

Been there got the tshirt.
I rang the slapper up and told her what was what and so did dh. It stopped after that.

Some people have no idea.
She is being beyond inappropriate and I'm suprised no one has done anything at the work place.

MamaMaiasaura · 14/05/2006 13:54

She sounds really pathetic.. she would probably love the fact that she is getting at you.

Can i suggest you dh sorts this out with some briliant put down, I am sure we can all think of some for him. Perhaps he could provide her with a leaflet for local STD clinic as well and suggests she gets her self tested Grin

snafu · 14/05/2006 13:55

I suppose that technically she should be reported for inappropriate behaviour - as another female I wouldn't want to be working with a woman like that - but from a male point of view I would think she's probably a laughing stock.

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Northerner · 14/05/2006 13:56

Oh sounds fun

Lets think of appropriate put downs for her. Loving the STD leaflet. They work in the local hospital so shuldn't be too hard to find one!!!

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harpsichordcarrier · 14/05/2006 13:56

I agree with snafu
this wouldn't bother me I don't think... she is obviously a bit of a nut case
I have worked in a few kitchens and I expect your dh is a bit hardened to it, or does it bother him?
honestly, she is just a sad old slapper and not worth you bothering yourself about for a second Northerner

MamaMaiasaura · 14/05/2006 13:58

I wouldnt even let my dog sniff you...

harpsichordcarrier · 14/05/2006 13:58

as for giving her the satisfaction of confronting her - imo that would probably give her the (false) impression that she is a threat to you and might even encourage her
if I came acrosss her I might give her a bit of a put down... but not wirth the time and effort. would give her an inflated idea of her own importance

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Northerner · 14/05/2006 14:00

No it doesn't bother dh, he laughs it off.

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MamaMaiasaura · 14/05/2006 14:00

harps - turning the other check is all well and good, but it does feel better sometimes to stand ground. As a nation we ignore and try and rise above but it doesnt always work.

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Northerner · 14/05/2006 14:01

Ok, so concenscus is to let it lie, and if I ever meet her I shall just say 'oh yes, I've heard about you'

?????

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harpsichordcarrier · 14/05/2006 14:03

Oh I am all for standing up and being counted but...
seriously though, what good would it do to confront her?
she would just think she was a threat to you
imagine what she would say to Northerner's dh the next day?
imagine what she would say to her cronies?
SO not worth it
imo

MamaMaiasaura · 14/05/2006 14:04

i agree that Northerner shouldnt say, I think her DH should say something, words like give it a rest etc dont appear to be working. That is what i said before

TinyGang · 14/05/2006 14:05

Well yes, if you go overboard she'll have got a reaction from someone. It's annoying that he has to put up with it though, there can't be many men these days who don't realise that doing this to a woman would land them in hot water. A woman harrassing a man is just the same.

A quiet put-down if you get the chance could be,

Well you obviously have excellent taste in the opposite sex, unfortunately for you so does dh.

harpsichordcarrier · 14/05/2006 14:05

if you get to meet her at a wroks do or something you might want to say, very quietly - so you fancy my dh do you? shame really because he told me he wouldn't touch you with rubber gloves on if you were the last woman on earth.
you might want to add the words "you dirty slapper" on the end if that isn't too unsisterly Smile

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