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The Dating Game...

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Lizzer · 16/01/2002 17:06

Hello, as advised by Ems I'm starting this for you all to help and advise me through the fabulous, but often disasterous, world of dating. The reason being (may as well tell the whole world, eh!) I've just found myself back in that big old sea hunting for one of the plenty more fish that I'm always being told exist. Its actually taken me 2 yrs of full time mothering mixed with absolute fear of the unknown to get here, and now I'm going on a DATE next week - Gah!

I'd love to hear any tragi-comic stories that you might have on the subject and obviously any helpful hints and tips for me such as 'no don't wear the red PVC number on your first date' etc...!!

I'm sure you all have some hidden in your deepest darkest memories, so share with us...

(Also any touching, romantic ones would be great - they give me hope that there is someone out there for me somewhere!!! )

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Ailsa · 26/01/2002 22:54

I wonder how Lizzer's getting on?

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Lizzer · 27/01/2002 23:33

Helloooo!!!! I'm back and all is well, well better than well really! I had a really good time and although I didn't see your msg 1st jodee I certainly did have a glass or 4 of wine, hic! It was good got on well just went out for lunch that turned into evening (had to get back to dd before to late though.) I was amazed at how easy it was being in his company and would like to see him again (we've txted since so I don't think I put him off for life!) Was really good (have I said that? sorry for rambling) I'll keep you up to date (so to speak) with all the latest, but can safely say I'm smiling my head off tonight, thanks for all your msgs X

  • it's me!
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Batters · 28/01/2002 09:52

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jodee · 28/01/2002 13:31

FOUR glasses of wine eh! You minx! Glad it went well - yes when's the next date - good timing as well with Feb 14 not far off!

Ems · 28/01/2002 13:40

Great Lizzer, glad it went so well you smiley sunbeam.

Janus · 28/01/2002 18:28

Lizzer, good on you girl! God, those first few dates can be a bit nerve-wracking but also so much fun getting to know eachother ... enjoy!

ScummyMummy · 28/01/2002 19:57

Wa-hey!

sis · 28/01/2002 21:08

Aaah! I'm happy for you Lizzer and looking forward to updates. Yep, it's vicarious living again!

CAM · 30/01/2002 15:33

Lizzer - remember your Vinopolis tag: "lovely Lizzer" so what's not to like!

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Lizzer · 30/01/2002 17:34

Thanks everyone! I'm currently arranging date no. 2 (with huge minefield of distance and babysitting to sort out) so I'll let you draw your own conclusions as to my state of mind at the moment! (ok, you guessed it - still smiling )

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TigerMoth1 · 30/01/2002 17:38

Far fewer minefieds than arranging a playdate, Lizzer! (see other thread)

Good on you

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Lizzer · 22/04/2002 12:35

Ok, is anyone interested in my love life???!!!! Ah, thought not but I'm gonna tell you anyway! Carried on dating the guy and kept waiting for that whole fireworks, butterflies in tummy thing. But it just wasn't happening, we didn't have anything in common and conversation was often not flowing naturally. We also clashed on some big issues too and in the end I found him quite dull and arrogant! He seemed to be dating me only because he needed to be with someone - not ME in particular, he had no interest or passion about things in my life. But that's not where the story ends...

I was thinking about ending it, I didn't think he would because he was too busy thinking he was great to notice there were huge fundamental differences between us (oooo, bitch!) My friend went out one night and started chatting to this guy I've liked from afar for years (we have never actually had conversation but I'd seen him around and liked what I saw!) I never thought anything would happen, but I found out from her that he felt the same about me and had done for ages. SO I ditched Mr Arrogant and went out one weekend bumped into this gorgeous, witty, lovely guy and we hit it off straight away! We have loads of things in common, we talked for 4 hours straight off and I've seen him twice since (and again this week). Everyone I know who knows him says he is a great guy who will treat me well. I have butterflies and fireworks and everything - I'm so happy and excited and that's why I'm telling everyone (sorry for waffling on)

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Marina · 22/04/2002 12:55

Lizzer, sorry about the recent setback but by the sound of things you have found yourself a superior model! Hope it works well for you and he can bring lots of flowers and offers of aromatherapy shoulder massages to get you through the next month...

Twink · 22/04/2002 12:59

Wahey ! You've brightened up a really cr*p Monday (literally, DD has diahorrea !)
That's great, you truly deserve to be with someone who appreciates you ! I'm sitting typing with a huge grin now

Ems · 22/04/2002 13:07

Great news Lizzer, hope you have some fun during your hard working hours!

I'm sitting here on a wet Monday Twink! Potty training started today, roll on the end of the week.

Viv · 22/04/2002 13:19

Its great to hear some good news Lizzer, keeping everything crossed for you.

Joe1 · 22/04/2002 13:37

Good for you Lizzer, doesnt it just feel great when that happens

bells2 · 22/04/2002 14:28

How exciting Lizzer!. Please keep us posted

SueW · 22/04/2002 16:24

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ScummyMummy · 22/04/2002 18:05

Hurumph hurumph and hurumph again! First college, then dating and now a wonderful man who gives you butterflies? What other evil will you find to keep you away from Mumsnet? I feel a scummysulk coming on...

My son wants to type F for fire so here goes: fff

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Lizzer · 23/04/2002 15:28

Thanks everyone! Got another date tonight so am really excited again! However, sometimes I feel like my life is one giant channel 5 soap opera because guess who just left a message on my answering machine who hasn't been in touch since dd was 9 months old, and hasn't seen her since she was 4 months???!!! Her father! Great, now I have a mix bag of emotions about him that haven't really dealt with and I'm trying not to let it get in the way of how I'm feeling for ppp (possible perfect partner) GAH! why does he want to get in touch now???!!! I'm convinced there's some bad dramatists having a good old play around with the storylines of my life - its not fair!

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Hedgehog · 24/04/2002 10:10

Lizzer, that is just great!!!! I wish you the very best of luck and hope that everything works out well for you this time- you really deserve it!!!

Keeping my fingers, toes, arms, legs and eyes crossed for you!!!!! (only joking!) :-)

jasper · 24/04/2002 13:44

Lizzer , we are all enjoying a vicarious existence on the romantic front thanks to you ( please tell me it isn't just me)
Feel free to embellish the details just a bit for our benefit..