in the Telegraph today is a Mumsnetter. If so, and she sees this, could she perhaps tells us what the eff she is on about what she means as we are finding it slightly obscure.
The letter:
"SIR ? Like the Queen, I agree that motherhood is the only job that matters (Notebook, November 23). Why then are mothers who long to stay at home forced to work in order to pay for nursery fees, which are subsidised by the Government?
Why not pay mothers to stay at home with two children up to when they start school? Any more children they would have to fund themselves. This works very well in other countries, so why not here?"
I know this is a long shot, but you never know! 
Or if any of you have an idea what she means, that would be helpful.