Is it just me or do you get this????

[charliecat]

I have one friend with 1 boy who I cannot spend 6.5 minutes without her telling me how bitchy girls are and how LOVING her son is and how 10 bitchy girls could never make up for her 1 son and another friend with a big age gap between her two is still insisting to me it must be awfully difficult top have 2 close together even though it really wasnt???
I have 2 dds with 3 years between them. I dont find myself doing the same to them.

thankfulkly no cos most of my friends have a similar age gap

I do sometimes make sweeping statements like "thats boys for you" BUT never nasty ones
Its usually cos friends withouth boys look aghast at how noisy and hyper my DS can seem - and it really is just boyish behaviour

myabe your friend is secretly jealous & would like a girl

It's their insecurities...don't you just hate people like that!

When i had my ds a 'friend' had a dd & would not stop reminding me what i was missing out. I have friends with small age gaps & friends with large ones. They all have positives & negatives for their age gaps...who is to say what's right? I would tell your friend to get a life!

Charliecat, an envious friend it sounds like to me . You've got what she hasn't. larsxx

sigh of relief :) I find myslef thinking is it just me they do this to? Or do they not realise they say this EVERY TIME I see them...grrr...at least I can rant here :)