I've just figured out why dd1 prefers her daddy to do her packed lunch, I never usually look, but wasn't sure if he had done it this morning and she had
White bread with a thick layer of chocolate spread (and knowing dh and his love of stork, a thick layer of that)
A single chunky kitkat finger, a mint viscount, strawberry squash and a yogurt 
When I do packed lunch she usually gets
A bagel with hardly any marg, ham, cucumber or suchlike, an apple, a yogurt and some very very weak apple juice
I shall be having words me thinks