We were due to have our secret wedding in three weeks and now I've called it off. I'm so, so sad. Dp and I have been through so much in the last 18 months and I think it's finally taken it's toll. Obviously no one knew about the wedding but some very kind mners have given me advice on what to wear etc for which I am very grateful, but I just needed to 'tell' someone how heartbroken I am, although it is probably for the best.