Fuming!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! DP's effing ex.

[intergalacticwalrus]

Has just called and aked to speak to "her" husband.

Bitch. who does she think she is?

are they divorced? or were they never married?

Sorry, pointless thread. Have never spoken to her before, but she was fking rude.

COW

that's how she introduced herself? what a bitch!

They are still married, but she hasn't seen him since 2000, when she threw a plate at him.

obviously she thinks she's his wife

seriously dont let it get to you as surely there's only one reason she did it

Um. You're reacting just the way she wants you to. Don't rise to it.

If she does it again, act mildly amused, even if you're seething. Make her feel silly.

Silly cow!

(The ex, not IW!)

techically he is her husband though...

Yes, true.

She's still a bitch though.

CALM.

who does she think she is?

er.....his wife.

They were together less than a year

agree with jampots, dont bother rising to her next time. she obviously just wants to wind you up, and probably has great satisfaction in doing so.

The good thing is walrus you can come on here and rant about her while exuding a calm, collected facade to everyone around you!

Worked for me when MIL was alive as she wound me up rotten talking about DH's ex girlfriend amongst other things.

How ridiculous those who seem to agree with 'wife'

depends if you define yourself as being such - she sounds pathetic to me!

Dont agree with the wife, just saying that she is techically right iyswim. Doesnt mean that I dont think shes a nasty bitch

Don't let it get to you.

I'd have told her that 'her husband' doesn't live here but she's welcome to talk to your DP, so obviously I don't practise what I preach .

Oh I've just clocked that she's his wife.

So what's the problem?

Sorry, I thought she was his ex-wife. If she's still his wife, why are you annoyed that she's asking for her husband? Or am I being obtuse?

Yes, she is in the eyes of the law his wife, but as they haven't spoken really in 4 years, and he hasn't seen her for 6, I'd say he's deffo moved on, wouldn't you?

She rang to rant on about why HE hadn't persued the divorce (erm, why can't she do it? We can't afford at the mo) and about how DP "blanked" his step son in a pub, and about how I'm a home wrecker, even though we got together after she and him split up.

IMHO, she's a bitter old cow, and I will not waste any more energy even thinking about the dried up old hag (who, btw is 21 years older than DP)

glad you got that out of your system then....

most certainly did!!!!!

Anyway, have just been for a scan, baby is all fine, so what really matters?

Nothing else matters IG. Dont get all het up about it. Not worth it, you have a baby on the way and a lovely DP by the sounds of it.

Although i wouldnt personally be so bothered about it.