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100years · 16/04/2012 16:17

Well what happens now? Grin

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Leftwingharpie · 23/06/2012 11:41

Don't worry, I am prone to irrationally panicking at the slightest provocation at the moment unfortunately! Lovely DH drove me up to Airedale hospital this morning to see what it would be like to get to. It's clearly much more accessible than Bradford Royal Infirmary, which is closer but through the thick of town.

Am definitely going to do hypnobirthing thanks for the recommendations. I'm honestly so glad I've got you lot with me for this.

LookAtHerGo · 23/06/2012 12:31

Vomit started this morning. I'm hoping it's not a sign of things to come. My mw said the other day to her student that I was the worst case of HG she had seen in a long time. :(

Sorry for being quite, I've been quite dizzy so far, almost passed out a few times. And running around after a 9 1/2 month old!

Hope everything else is ok. I'll check in after the weekend as we are away t the moment.

ShaggingProducesResults · 23/06/2012 13:59

LWH - I recommend the hypnobirthing. As you know, I was determined to have a HB in water but ended up with an elective section. The moral of the story is to aim for the birth you want but be prepared for things to be the complete opposite of what you have in your head as your dream birth experience!! Despite mine being very different to what I'd wanted and prepared for it was fantastic.

I think that the hypnobirthing kept me calm in pregnancy so even though I never went into labour it was still worth doing the course to ensure that I was positive in my approach to the birthing experience I was given.

It's such an exciting time :)

Bebe. Sorry to hear that the tiny human is poorly :( bless her. I loved her self chosen outfit the other day (I particularly loved the addition of a fleece lined hat in June!!)

bebejones · 23/06/2012 16:32

Oh no LAHG Sad Hope it's not a sign of things to come...FX xxx

Ever so quickly popping on to say [excited] a friend has commissioned a cake from me this morning for her DS (for 9th July) AND another friend has enquired about me making her some wedding cake toppers (for 4th) August!! Yay!!!!! Grin

minipie · 23/06/2012 20:55

Just got back from hols

Oh My God! harpie congratulations! very very very exciting!

How is Mr Harpie? Grin

Leftwingharpie · 24/06/2012 10:48

LAHG how is the sickness now? I hope it doesn't come back like last time. I never realised you were so bad with it. Are you away somewhere nice?

SPR when did you start doing the hypnotherapy? Does it help to do it for longer do you think? I'm much more worried about suffering psychological trauma than physical damage, so anything that helps me keep calm has to be a good thing.

Bebe that's fantastic news about the cake orders - well done! You were up early this morning. I'm not sure I'm looking forward to early mornings with a demanding toddler. Relaxing with a cup of tea and doing some scrap booking isn't too bad!

Minipie I know! It happened a bit quicker than either DH or I expected, so we're both still reeling from the shock! DH seems really happy about it and has been indulging his favourite hobby online shopping! So me, you and LAHG are pg pals. How was your trip? And how have you been feeling?

bebejones · 24/06/2012 11:22

Harpie - frustrating thing is I was the only one awake!! Grrrrr! DD didn't get up til 7.45! (I was awake at 5.30!!) :(

LookAtHerGo · 24/06/2012 21:12

Right, I'm only catching up from where I posted last I'm sorry.

Thanks bebe, and excellent stuff about the cake things :) that's brilliant :)

Harpie, well it turns out I wasn't told it was HG until the very end whilst discussing it with my mw, so all the time I was ill I just thought it was morning sickness, it wasn't until I put the stuff together, loss of 2 stone, unable to function, nothing helping, dehydrated etc etc that I asked if it was, the reason it wasn't noted as such was because I wasn't hospitalised, I think had I gone to the docs more I would have been, but I never wanted to make a fuss there, felt I was a burden, yadda yadda yadda. But the mw confirmed it was and said so when I had my notes done this time. I need to look if it was noted in them actually. We were at the in laws, had a BBQ at a friends house, spent last night mopping up E's vomit, she's currently sleeping in the travel cot at the foot of our bed, as I'm not leaving her in the other room alone tonight, just in case, and I'm not sleeping on the floor! Only felt sick today, no actual vomit, so that's good. I'm hopeful that it stays this way, although I am realistic that I probably aren't that lucky.

Leftwingharpie · 25/06/2012 18:25

Still trying to make my booking appointment.

The Airedale website says women should book direct, so I called the number to make an appointment only to be told they have discontinued that approach and I have to see my GP for a referral.

Dutifully trotted along to the GP, only to be told to phone the midwives directly.

Phoned the midwives, who suggested I make an appointment with my GP to be referred to the community midwives attached to the surgery.

Phoned the surgery and was told by the receptionist that I need to call the community midwife directly. Called and got an answer phone message.

Next thing, I get a call from the GP's receptionist. The GP's made a mistake. Don't call the community midwives directly - you need to be referred by the GP. Wait for a letter. Fine.

Then another call - the community midwife replying to my message. No you don't have to be referred by your GP, you need to call Bradford community midwives, book in with them and then transfer to Airedale.

Now I don't know whether to wait for the letter, or carry on calling!

Leftwingharpie · 25/06/2012 18:45

I hope they're not planning to pass me around like this when I ring up in labour. It's been like that scene from the 12 Tasks of Asterix where they have to obtain a permit in The Place That Drives You Mad!

LookAtHerGo · 26/06/2012 20:27

Oh heck harpie :( don't worry about being passed around when you are in labour, you will be ringing the delivery suite or whatever yours is called then, so direct to them at that point :)

Got my scan for the 19th Shock 3 weeks to wait......

Currently living in the sick house with LO and DP both having some stomach trouble or another. I hope I steer clear.

Leftwingharpie · 26/06/2012 21:15

So you're pregnant, and everyone in the household is puking except you?! That's no good! Sending you MNetty fortifying hugs to get you through it!

3 weeks. It goes slowly doesn't it!

LookAtHerGo · 26/06/2012 21:50

Yep, the pukatron (DD) and the pukashitatron (DP) and me the diffed one! I'm knackered, DP is quite ill and LO is quite clingy. It's all good fun.

LookAtHerGo · 26/06/2012 21:51

And to be fair, 3 weeks will fly by chasing E around!

LookAtHerGo · 26/06/2012 21:51

I hope

Leftwingharpie · 26/06/2012 23:38

DH had a message tonight from one of his best childhood friends saying his wife is 12 weeks pregnant! DH seems very pleased.

LookAtHerGo · 26/06/2012 23:43

Ah lovely. You'll be sharing your news soon Grin

We've actually told a few people IRL now, which is good but you kind of feel you need to explicitly say how it's very early days.

E has just woke, been slightly sick :( I settled her then promptly went and heaved over the loo. I really hope I'm not getting it. Think I need to take e to the docs tomorrow to check over this sicky stuff. Can't do that if I'm bad. But I think DP is feeling a teeny tiny bit better.

Leftwingharpie · 26/06/2012 23:55

I know - just seven more weeks! Is it just me, or is everyone I speak to completely dismissive of my pg because it's such early days. Everyone I spoke to on the booking appointment trail seemed to lose interest completely when I said I was only five weeks. It's as if I'm not really properly pregnant yet.

Sorry to hear you've succumbed to the vomming. Hopefully it's just your overdeveloped sense of smell provoking a normal reaction, and not the resurgence of ms.

minipie · 27/06/2012 11:49

Catching up!

harpie I'm feeling fine thanks! and the holiday was fab. second trimester rocks, I'm basically feeling totally normal other than a bit hungrier and a bit fatter! got a doppler off amazon so have been listening to the bean jump around - can't feel anything yet though.

that's good that your DH's friend is also on the baby track - they can have manly fatherhood chats, or something! We are in a similar position, as my BIL (DH's brother) and SIL are due in October, so about 7 weeks ahead of us - it's nice for DH to have someone to talk pregnancy with.

Look sorry about the vomming! how miserable - really hope it doesn't set you off too much. And poor little E. What is HG? Is that the same as hyperemesis? Ouch.

Leftwingharpie · 27/06/2012 13:58

There are three of us now in DH's friendship group, one baby due November, one December and ours in February/March. It will be lovely for us - and you and SIL - to get together and swap stories when they're small. I'm bursting to tell our news!

Glad the second trimester is treating you well. It must be reassuring to be able to listen in and check the LO is ok.

bebejones · 28/06/2012 07:54

Harpie - did you manage to sort out the MWs in the end? I'm sure they won't pass you around in labour, once you're booked in here's hoping it's plain sailing all the way to the finish line!! :o (You'll just have to scream at everyone if they do it when you're in labour!!) Nice for you & DH to have so many people going through it all with you.

LAHG - Sorry you have had a sicky house :( How are you feeling now? 19th July will come around SO fast. Time goes so quickly when you have a little person to tend to!!

Had a lovely evening at DDs last ever pre-school parents' evening last night. Her key worker has put some lovely things in her 'learning journey' folder which will be such a special keepsake when we finally get to keep it. She told me that DD has exceptional vocabulary & conversational skills (she recently told her teacher not to eat the plastic play food because it was 'putrid'!! ROFL) and that her number/maths ability is what they would expect from a Year1 child (5-6...DD is still 3)!!! :o SO proud of her, she's such a little star even when she's driving me bonkers!!

I have no other news really, I've been manically busy decorating a cake for pre-school's 10th anniversary fair on Saturday. Got so many cakes to do over the next couple of months!! Looks like it will actually be a viable 'business' when I start doing it properly. DH registered a domain name for me last week & when DD is full time at school (probably after Christmas) I'll be able to sort things out! :)

Still no signs of MURCOM though....living in hope...just about!

Leftwingharpie · 28/06/2012 08:04

Wow Bebe what a brilliant report from pre-school be careful your head doesn't explode with pride! If that's not a shining endorsement for the second baby plan I don't know what is! You practically owe it to the country!

No luck with the booking appointment. I've had conflicting advice, so I'm not too sure what to do. I don't want to try to book with Bradford and then change as suggested, because I'm not convinced it will go that smoothly, going on past experience. The doctor's receptionist told me to wait for a call from the Rose (sp?) team. I don't even know which the Rose team is. It might even be the Wrose team as there's a place nearby called Wrose, but I'm not sure where it is.

Leftwingharpie · 28/06/2012 08:06

I hope it's not a team led by this woman!

LookAtHerGo · 28/06/2012 11:27

E has puked again Sad got emergency app at the docs. Just waiting to go in now. SadSad this is not good. I hope they say just a bug and let it run it's course.

LookAtHerGo · 28/06/2012 11:42

More than likely just a bug, wait it out. Keep trying solids and try fluids as an when and keep breast feeding. Got a bit of temp so give calpol as that can make them sick too Sad I'm bloody beat Sad