i want to help my sister, she is 26 and a qualified (very good) hairdresser but she is currently living with my mum and wants to get some money together to move out, the problem is she only earns £8,500 per year. she has credit cards, and a car on finance which has just cost her £500 when it went for a service. i have suggested paying off the credit card and getting a better paid job and then start saving for a house but she says she loves her job and then she crys because she doesnt know what else to do she says because shes dyslexic (sp?) she cant do another job i know this isnt true and we all have to do jobs we dont enjoy sometimes to get by and pay bills so what do i suggest to her?
i have said she could go and work on a cruise ship as a hairdresser but she doesnt want to live on her own away from people, shes very shy.
she thinks she can rely on men but she cant she;d rather be with any man than the right man iykwim not that she's a slut she is in a relationship right now but he's more of a mess than her. i tell her to look on the bright side because at least she's only got herself to think of and hasnt got to worry about kids etc the world is her oyster! how can i get through to her and make her see that this isnt how life has to be?