during the summer, some friends of mine all decided we'd had enough of always buying presents and never recieving any. so we did this thing where everyone gave over a ten pound note, and the birthday girl got fifty pounds of debenhams vouchers, and had to feed everyone either lunch, or dinner, depending on what was easier for them. i was one of the main ones to push for this, as am very materialistic, but my birthday was the last in the year, . october. but couldnt have ti then as one of the girls was going on holiday. then couldnt have it coz house was being redecorated. then it was christmas, then more decoration. etc etc.
i have been bullied into having it tomorrow lunchtime. but i have no groceries in the house. its also a pigsty. and i just dont want to have anyone oover to my house right now. still dont have kids playroom done yet. so everything in living room still.
can i call it off, or am i just being a miserable cow?