Go on then, how often?

[waterbaby]

This one is about sex utka

At the moment!!

NEVER

Still havent done the deed since DS's arrival - he will be 6 weeks on sunday

I think my first time post DD was really hard emotionally, not physically.

Just asked dp and he has said not enough!

most definitely not enough. Very rarely in fact!

At the moment ... never ... when we were ttc ... always ... when things are 'normal' ... probably not enough for DH

I have just got my sex-drive back after having ds 2 years ago (2 years!) and I guess we now do it twice a week. Nice to be back in action

Is it ever enough for both parties? I thought our drives were fairly evenly matched, but they have been completely different since DD was born - lots of reasons, but tiredness does factor!

I have always had a fairly low sex drive and DP (I feel) has always had an extrodinarily high one.

Majority of the time he feels we don't "Do It" enough but we are ttc at the mo.

At the minute it's every other day but at the very beginning and end of a cycle i get a bit of a rest

About twice a week. But dh would do it every day if he could!

My sex drive is still dormant after DD's birth 14 months ago. We prob get around to it once a month if we're lucky at the mo. I tried to intiate a bit of action last night but I've bust my left hip so we ended up abandoning ship, so to speak, halfway through as it was just too painful.

I am the opposite to Northerner's situation. I would do it every day but dh would be happy twice a week.

lou33 - do you wanna swap?!

Depends, is he gorgeous?

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Not done it for 3 months and not planning to do it for another 3 months!

Do I need to answer this

It might not change Twinkie, I've been with dh for almost 16 years. Regarding periods, dh doesn't like it but it doesn't bother me.

We're the other way around Lou, DH doesn;t give 2 hoots about AF, but I'm bothered by it. Makes me feel slef-conscious (smell, mess etc) at the best of times !

TYPO QUEEN !!! Apologies, do have brain really

Same as lou33.However he tries to at least once a day but always want more.Have extremely high sex drive am afraid

Lou33 and SingingMum, here here! I always seem to want more toooooo....

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My god, what have I started

About once a week (the full monty) but improvise about aonce a week too. And still he complains!!!

We used to have matching high sex drives but 2 kids and antedepressants later he feels hard done by. Although he tries to be as tactful as poss!

1-2x/month.