A few months ago i would have been all for some terrible punishment, lots of pain and humiliation, and life inpronsionment etc -
But since then, having thought it through and come to terms with my own personal sistuation my views have changed somewhat.
I dont think that there is ever going to be any form of punishment that will make up for what a suvivor (not 'victim') goes through.
I am surprised to find that I agree with some of what cod is saying, its never black and white and i thing that the rapists history has to come into it.
I have no answer to what the punishment can be, i couldnt ever make a desision to what sentance to give a rapist because i would be using my emotions to judge.
But using your energy to focus on all the ways in which you could hurt the attacker isnt good for you, it messes you up inside, and keeps you in the place where they left you.
I do think that the perpertrator would definatly need some intensive psychothearpy and psychiatric help. Rape is about power and control not sex. And although it in now way justifys what they did, something has happened to this person to make them act the way they do.
I just dont know, i dont think there are any real answers, each case is individual and needs to be looked at as such.