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update on peter...

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misdee · 31/10/2005 21:03

here

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NomDePlume · 31/10/2005 21:04

What a rollercoaster this is, misdee.

Happylocketsthesmiler · 31/10/2005 21:04

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hunkermunker · 31/10/2005 21:04

Oh, my sweet - I really hope he has no more setbacks and is on the list again as soon as possible x x x

Twiglett · 31/10/2005 21:05

Oh wow

sorry to read about the stroke misdee

hope he's back on transplant list soon

how are you holding up?

moondog · 31/10/2005 21:05
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edam · 31/10/2005 21:06

I am so sorry Misdee. Thinking of you and sending positive thoughts about a swift return to the list.

teeavee · 31/10/2005 21:06

am with you in my thoughts, wishing you good news asap

misdee · 31/10/2005 21:08

i'm ok. just trying to see whewn i can get up there this week, its all very hectic atm, got appointments tomorrow and weds, so looks like it will be thursday.

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LadyTophamHatt · 31/10/2005 21:08

oh no....

HRHQoQ · 31/10/2005 21:08

gosh I hadn't realised he was officialy put on the transplant list on my birthday .

Have put your blog in my favourites (sounds a bit oddd 'favourites' - but you know what I mean).

Frizbe · 31/10/2005 21:09

Lots of positive vibes your way hon.

aloha · 31/10/2005 21:09

Like everyone else, thinking of you and hoping for better news soon. You write very eloquently about your situation.

misdee · 31/10/2005 21:10

the 1st time or the 2nd time QoQ? dd3 was born the 21st feb, he was put on the list on the 14th march IIRC. i get all upset when i remember he has spent most of her life in hospital.

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LucyJones · 31/10/2005 21:13

Hi Misdee. Just read your blog after not really knowing much about you and Peter. I'm so sorry that the last few years have been so hard for you. Don't know much about it so do you mind if I ask you a few questions?!! Why is it that he's been on the transplant list for so long? Is it because people don't carry donor cards or is it because a suitable match hasn't come up? Hope my question doesn't upset you!!
Are you the same age as him? It's lovely that you met at 17 How far is the hospital to where you are?

HRHQoQ · 31/10/2005 21:16

14th March - when he was put on the list.

Sorry - meant also to say think off you - things will get better.

suedonim · 31/10/2005 21:18

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misdee · 31/10/2005 21:20

Lucyjones. Peter has had 3 transplant calls, none of which were suitable. time ran out, so LVAD is being used. but he needs to recover fully from that and his stroke before he can go on the list again. The average wait is around 6months, but people have been supported on LVADs waiting for transplant for upto 2years.

Not enough people carry donor cards or are registyered and those that are, well the relatives have the last say, if they say no then theorgans wont be used. And also with medical advances being made and more people being saved after serious accidents qwhere before they wouldnt have been able means they is fewwer organs available anyway.

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HellsTreef · 31/10/2005 21:20

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LucyJones · 31/10/2005 21:21

sorry to be so ignorant about it. I can't imagine how you cope. Do you get much help with the chuldren when he is in hospital?

misdee · 31/10/2005 21:22

if oen the kids are ill and cannot go into visit then i usually getmy aprents to watch them at theirs or if its the bay then my dad wabtches her at the canteen at harefield. its a 60mile round trip to the hospital and back.

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QueenVictoria · 31/10/2005 21:47
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Hulababy · 31/10/2005 21:52

Thinking of you all misdee.

JanH · 31/10/2005 21:53

I don't know what to say either

winnie · 31/10/2005 21:55

Thinking of you all Misdee... wish there was somethign constructive to say.

misdee · 31/10/2005 21:55

I know peter will get back o bthe list, he is stubborn as anything, and tough as hell, its just another set back to make this journey even longer.

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