You have all raised good points. In answer to Gracie - yes I believe that everyone has the right to donate to who they like and I wasn't suggesting that ALL money raised for victims of the WTC be split, there are numerous funds now set up for these victims, but I was questioning of ethics of having a load of Hollywood stars do various concerts specifically for them. Someone said that there are lots of funds for Aghanistan, this is not so, there are now more funds set up for the WTC than for Afghanistan, just trawl through the internet and count them. The message it sends out to the world is that America's rich and famous will come out and raise millions for their own people, but are reluctant to do the same for others. If this war is to be a 'just' war, don't you think that someone should be putting on charity concerts for them too, so that it is evenly matched?
There is very little aid getting through to Afghanistan, today in the papers the aid agencies were criticising the American government for dropping packets containing just enough meals for one day and asked "How will the Afghans know in the future if an offer of humanitarian aid does not hide a military operation?".
I am sorry that I picked up on stupid points such as life insurance, you are quite right, that has nothing to do with anything. But the West is not blameless in the state of Afghanistan, they DID help the Taliban rise to power, as well as Pakistan. The West has always favoured Israel over Palestine and the oppressing Taliban regime, though widely reported over here, was not acted upon by any government. Those Afghans who hijacked that plane at Luton Airport ages ago were desperate for the West to help their country, but we did nothing.
I don't mean to have a go at the families of the dead and I apologise if that is the way I have come across, but I do think the West do a good job of looking after their own whilst turning a blind eye to the plight of those in the East. And as to Tigger2's comments, I would much rather be homeless on the streets of Britain than homeless and living in Afghanistan. At least I know where there are homeless shelters and places to go for a cup of tea and a hot meal, just look at how many charities we have for our own kind, there are no such shelters over there. These are all our brothers and sisters and should be treated as such. If Paul MacCartney can put on a concert for the WTC victims, then someone should do the same for the Afghans.