I feel like crying

[rickman]

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yourself!! - having 4 kids is an achievement as well. Blobby!! - who cares - it's you that's important.

Dont cry for gods sake woman enjoy it...hes lovely and you are too xxxx

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enjoy like charliebat says. hope you're ok xxx

Really, dont cry Your making me sad now. Your lovely and your kids are an asset. They are lovely as you are, and if this did turn into something then he would realise this too.
Really.

Oh and your not blobby by the way.

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Bloddy hell - you're not blobby at all you stupid mare

My first post divorce shag was with a French waiter many years younger than me - who was as drop dead gorgeous as they come!

I only really wanted him for his body but couldn't shake him off once I'd had enough of him

Don't think about the long term just enjoy it for the buzz a day at a time. Who knows where it will lead to, but if you don't give it a go, you'll never know and that would be a sad way to live

You need to be brave and abandon all the negative crap that someone spent years implanting in your brain

Hear Hear soapbox!!!!!!

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You have wit, maturity, intelligence, experience, and compassion. That's what you have.

Bet my mate is blobbier than you, and she is a willy magnet.

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Some do, yeah, but the ones worth knowing have a little more depth than that . Stop being negative and play it by ear - you're only chatting.

Young blokes like all sorts of things. I know an 18 year old lad who purposely goes for older, larger women, (he asked me out!), and he says a good sense of humour is the best thing ever.

He isn't a geekboy either, he is a loud, popular rugby type.

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i totally know where your coming from hun. the idea of being anywhere near another man terrifies me yet i am desperate to "get back on the horse"

dont cry though. maybe your just not ready yet. keep chatting and see how hings go. dont put any pressure on yourself and hey, if your yourself and he is still sticking around then how are you a fraud. he obviously see's what all these other women see....someone special

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To be very crude blokes are very visual. They don't see blobby (am sure you aren't) they see a willing and able body!!! Have you swapped photos??? How do you know it is him in the photo??? He could be blobby.