Sorry that I was an arse discussing you finances. It was totaly out of order and I am beating myself up for my lack of tact.
I'm very sorry.
I feel your husband has one of those increadably important jobs that society doesn't value enough (raised a baptist myself).
As you said, how you spend it is your buisness. I was stupidly rushing to your defense when none was needed IYSWIM. Glad you liked the school.
hmb